In a Blink
Do you ever look at the day
And think to yourself, NO WAY!
Time has flown by in a zip
And you can’t seem to get a grip.
It just slips on through your fingers.
A memory is all that lingers,
But you know it truly was real
Life lived wasn’t something you feel.
So you wonder at what you can do
To make sure you enjoy the view
As you watch life fly on by
Hoping you won’t miss it with a sigh.
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. . . . .
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Richard Ankers is in a piratey mood, too, it would seem. :)
Originally posted on Richard Ankers:
Under a gangling ocean grey
Lie restless sailors sea did slay
Whelks for eyes, they cannot view
The souls they seek in deepest blue
With fingers twisting lamprey eels
They quest for hearts and all they yield
To rest eternal that’s their wish
Not roam about as mutant fish
But till the waters dry to steam
Beneath the ocean they shall dream
(Image courtesy maszeq on deviant art.com)
Two ladies I love dearly asked very similar questions of me. I will gladly try to answer them, because maybe one of you has a better idea…OR, you might like it how I do it so much you’ll want to try it, too! Either way, let’s share our secrets here on the world-wide-web. :)
Cyndi and Faye asked:
I can see that you are a loving mother, wife, and daughter, but what do you do to nourish/pamper yourself?
Lots of people who aren’t loving mothers, wives, or daughters are busy. The world we live in seems to be ever-moving, shifting, and changing. I am probably not half so busy as I seem, but most days I feel like things just never slow down. There is always something that must be done!
Here’s a rundown of my responsibilities:
Husband, Kids, Home, PT Job, Laundry (yes, this deserves its own category when there are six of you in a house), Family, Friends, Writing, Helping with Homework, Social-Media-ing, Blogging, etc. I’m sure you’re thinking that some of these aren’t really responsibilities, but I can assure you that they are!
The thing is, responsibility isn’t a bad thing. In fact, some things become a responsibility because they are a good thing and we love them. Most of that list is full of things I adore. Yes, there are a few I could live without, but because the not-so-fun ones are related to (and serve) the best ones, I would choose to do the unpleasant stuff over and over.
On top of taking care of everything that requires my time and attention, how to do I nourish and/or pamper myself?
- Well, when I feel stressed, I rearrange furniture.
- I also pick up my pencils and draw, or take out the paints and attempt to make something beautiful on canvas.
- I spend time with my best friends to just visit and laugh.
- I read my Bible.
- I sing whatever pops into my head (real songs or made up nonsense).
- I love to read books.
These are things I do as a way of pampering. My fingernails don’t get manicures, and the bathtub is not conducive to long soaks, so I ignore those options, but I’m sure they’re nice!
Believe it or not, all the writing I do, including this blog, help to nourish my heart and mind.
So, you could say, because I’ve got this creative bent, everything I do can nourish and pamper me if I look at it in the right light.
- When I rearrange, the house gets clean.
- When I draw, I have new art with which to decorate the walls or give as gifts to people I love.
- When I spend time with my friends, I am making them a priority.
- When I read my Bible, I grow closer to God who created me.
- When I sing, I forget the time and cleaning goes by faster.
- Reading, well, sometimes that can be done with my kids, and we get to enjoy a story together.
- My writing hopefully makes a difference for someone somewhere.
So, while I pamper and nourish myself — with the right attitude — I’m also able to fulfill all my responsibilities, too!
It’s pretty awesome how that works out!
What about you? How do you pamper/nourish yourself?! Tell us in the comments below.
Have a great day, Friend!